Talane’s Coaching Tip for the Week. More on Raising Your Emotional IQ Instantly - Part II
Now that You Have Identified Your top 4 Needs...
If you took the free Emotional Index Quiz (link to lifecoach.com homepage) last week, then you have identified your top 4 Personal and Emotional needs. Congratulations! You are now more emotionally intelligent than the vast majority of the population who remain clueless as to their own needs. Good for you!
The next step is to start setting up systems in your life to fulfilthose needs so completely that they effectively disappear. This is how you eliminate any vestiges of neediness, which we know is unattractive. For example, one of my top four needs is to be cherished. One of the systems I have in place to fulfil this need automatically is that I have a house cleaner come once a week. When I come in and find the house immaculate without having lifted a finger, I feel cherished. It is a simple way to satisfy this basic need. Another automatic system that I have set up is a weekly massage. The therapist comes to the house and gives me a massage and then I can go right to sleep afterwards. Heavenly! I also have asked my loved ones to cherish me by telling me what they love about me. And guess what? It works! Now all my closest friends and family know what I need and fulfil my need to be cherished without me having to ask. It just took a bit of effort to ask the very first time.
To start this process, ask five people who already love you and care about you to fulfil one of those top four needs. The first person you ask is the hardest until you get over any feelings of squeamishness or embarrassment. It gets much easier when you realize it isn't the big deal you were making it out to be. Yes, the people who love and care about you, really do want to meet your needs!
Enjoy the process!
Talane
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P.P.S. Stay tuned for more on how to fulfil your needs next week...
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